testing
Before you are selected as a donor you will be required to
submit to a series of tests in order to determine if you are
qualified. These tests include a psychological exam, genetic
testing, a blood test and an HIV test. The intended parents will
want to know as much about your psychological and genetic background
as possible. This can be time consuming, requiring several trips to
the doctor.
doctor visits
Egg donation requires many trips to the
doctor’s office. Once you begin the cycle with your injections, you
will have to go in for a blood test every few days. The doctors will
want to check how you are doing on the drugs and how your eggs are
responding. You will have to work the frequent office trips into
your schedule. If there is not a proper clinic in your area, you may
have to travel.
pain, suffering and discomfort
The egg donation
process is not pain-free. You will have to give yourself injections
in the arm, leg or belly every day and possibly more frequently as
your cycle ends. You will be injecting yourself with female
hormones. These hormones may cause you to have mood swings. You will
have to follow all your doctor’s instructions during this time. You
may not be able to drink or smoke and exercise may become difficult.
You will not be able to engage in sexual activity, as a pregnancy
will void the contract. Understanding what is required of you is
important before entering into the process. A thorough contract will
help you to understand your rights and responsibilities.
surgery
Egg
retrieval is a surgical operation. You may have to stay overnight
and will probably require travel to a clinic to perform the
operation. You will be put under sedation and will feel some
discomfort afterward. After the procedure, you will need to be
cleared by a doctor before engaging in sexual activity.
confidentiality
The contract will provide for the level of
confidentiality and anonymity of the parties. Most donors do not
want other people to know that they donated their eggs. The contract
can provide for that. Also most donors do not want the intended
parents or the future child to know who they are. For that reason,
the contract can provide that the intended parents may not find out
who you are or may not tell the child about you unless you give
permission in the contract. |